Prayer
Father God, we gather today to seek Your wisdom for living in peace
with those around us. Open our hearts to Your love and guide us to
reflect Your harmony in our words and actions. May these word inspire us to build bridges of kindness and understanding.
In
Jesus’ name, Amen.
Introduction
As we come to the last of our summer series, I’m going to first look at the whole series – to remind you what we have learnt. Then we will look at the final step in bringing God's peace to the world, so that we can be living in peace.
Summer Series
In the first service I started with Shalom, often translated peace, but also having the meaning of well-being and completeness. In the activity, I asked, “What disturbs your peace?” We wrote those things down and stored them in an envelope. We will come back to that later, so if you weren’t here that first week - now’s your chance to think about it. We learnt that Jesus has overcome the world, so that the peace He gives us is not disturbed by the worldly problems we have to deal with.
In the second service, Paul looked at sources of peace. We can get a sense of peace entering a church, or getting a blessing from God. In the activity, we decorated bookmarks with things that bring us peace. There were drawings from nature and scripture, among other things.
In the third service, Christine talked about peace in our community. She looked at Isaac and how he maintained peace for his community. In our activity, we listed the different elements of our community, and divided them up in to 3 categories:
Fun activities
Activities with moderate faith input
Activities with high faith input
We were asked, “Which Christ Church events fall into each category?” Which age groups are missing, and what types of activities might we need to fill the gaps?
Hazel has collected all the feedback, so hopefully the DCC can have a look at it.
On the fourth week, Margaret spoke to us about part of the beatitudes – blessed are the peacemakers. We made peace windmills, to learn that just as a windmill yields to the wind, so we too must yield to the Holy Spirit.
Last week, Margaret talked to us about peace in our hearts, which can only occur when our sins are forgiven. She spoke about Legion possessed by so many demons, being in his right mind after Jesus released him. Our activity saw each of our sins displayed, and a bible verse was read that identifies them, so they can be forgiven. You might like to add any sins that disturb your peace to the list.
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Living in Peace
Today, the last of our summer series services, we’re going to talk about ‘Living in peace’.
In Romans 12:18 Paul tells the Romans
If it is possible, as far as
it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.
As we have seen, he has a lot more to say on that subject later. He starts by telling them to stop judging one another and goes on to say that all food is clean. We could perhaps see this passage as saying “Don’t bring a burger to a vegetarian's birthday party”. That might get the flavour (pun intended) of what Paul is saying. But in Rome at the time it is more serious and more complex than simple thoughtlessness. So what’s going on?
Situation in Rome
It seems that in those days in Rome, there was a group of Roman Christians. Another group of Jews had recently been allowed back into the city, and among these were some Christians – who had joined with the gentile Romans. Now, there were issues with the food that they were eating. While the gentile Romans were not bothered, the Jewish Christians considered many of the foods that were being eaten as unclean.
Grow Up?
We might think that Paul would tell the Jewish Christians to grow up and follow Jesus, as He had already declared all foods clean. That’s in
Mark 7:18b-19 “Don’t you
see that nothing that enters a person from the outside can defile
them? For it doesn’t go into their heart but into their stomach,
and then out of the body.” (In saying this, Jesus declared all
foods clean.)
But, he doesn’t, instead he tells the gentile Christians that if they are to show love to the Jewish Christians, and live in peace with them, it is they who have to change.
The strong for the weak
We might phrase it like this:
For all Christians to live in peace with one another the ‘strong’ Christians, those who have freedom in Christ and are not bound by all sorts of petty regulations, must not put stumbling blocks in front of the ‘weak’ Christians, who following Jesus to the letter of the law and believe very strongly that all they do makes them more holy.
It is the strong who must change to protect the weak. It is not the job of the strong to change the weak – that is the way of conflict, not of peace.
All of us will find ourselves in this situation on one side or the other over different issues. Actually, it doesn’t matter which side you see yourself on.
Limits
Of course, there are limits, what Paul is saying only applies inside the church, and only to non-essential doctrines.
Matthew 7:7-12
Perhaps more important is what Jesus is saying in Matthew 7:7-12. He is trying to explain to them that God only has good gifts for those who ask for things from Him. He tells them that even though they are evil, they give good things to their children. Then He gives them another summary of the Law:
12 So in
everything, do to others what you would have them do to you,
for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.
Golden Rule
“Do to others what you would have them do to you” is known as the Golden Rule. It exists in almost every belief system, here are a few examples:
Greek: "Do not do to others that which would anger you if others did it to you."
-- Socrates (the Greek philosopher), - circa 470-399 BC
Confucianism :Do not do to others what you would not like yourself. Then there will be no resentment against you, either in the family or in the state.
Analects 12:2
Buddhism: Hurt not others in ways that you yourself would find hurtful.
Udana-Varga 5,1
Hinduism: This is the sum of duty; do naught onto others what you would not have them do unto you.
Mahabharata 5,1517
Islam :No one of you is a believer until he desires for his brother that which he desires for himself.
Sunnah
Judaism: What is hateful to you, do not do to your fellow man. This is the entire Law; all the rest is commentary.
Talmud, Shabbat 3id
Taoism: Regard your neighbour's gain as your gain, and your neighbour's loss as your own loss.
Tai Shang Kan Yin P’ien
Zoroastrianism: That nature alone is good, which refrains from doing another whatsoever is not good for itself.
Dadisten-I-dinik, 94,5
21st Century British culture: “Do unto others before they have the chance to do unto you”
Jesus has a slightly different take on this common saying, instead of a negative, He has a positive. “Do to others what you would have them do to you” This is typical for Jesus and entirely consistent with the rest of his teaching.
Problem
But there is a problem with this. It lacks true empathy. Now, I’m certain that Jesus didn’t lack empathy, very far from it, so I can only assume that the words were translated like this correctly, and the nuances of our use of language has changed since. And that just might come from my 21st Century British culture quote.
As an example, many years ago I was given the gift of a driving experience – I got to drive a Mini Cooper around a racetrack – and I loved it. But I wouldn’t now go and get the same thing for Jo – she doesn’t like driving fast – especially when she’s my passenger!
So to get closer to Jesus’s meaning, perhaps we should say:
“Treat others as you want to be treated”
An Example of the Golden Rule, as it should be: The Stoke Gifford weekend
Here’s an example of how it should work:
Many years ago, we took Liz to her new home, where she was doing a year out, in the Parish of Stoke Gifford, just outside Bristol. I'll remember the weekend for a long time. They had planned it all for us, they took us out to eat on the Saturday evening – and paid the bill. They put us up in somebodies house, and gave us the key so that we could come and go as we pleased. The lady of the house also left breakfast for us.
I think this is an excellent example of the golden rule in action!
Conclusion
If we are to live in peace with those around us, whether from the church, our neighbourhood, our workplace, or our school, we have to make the effort to make the peace we want to live in. We must not be judgemental – within reason, instead we must treat everyone we meet with the respect and love we would like to be treated with.
This is what showing God’s love really means.
Amen.
References
https://www.christianity.com/wiki/christian-life/what-is-the-golden-rule.html
https://memosfromgod.com/romans-1413-21-stumbling-blocks/
https://3cephas-notes.blogspot.com/search/label/Matthew%207%3A7-12
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hillel_the_Elder